"DNA test I conducted, which I decided to keep to myself for years, shows that two among the four children are not my own"- Pastor Chris Okafor reveals In interview
So, why are there all sorts of allegations of molestation and sexual misconduct against you?
Now, another question that is important to be asked is: How come I wasn’t accused of molesting anyone for 14 years, until I decided to remarry? That is what everybody should be asking.So, they allowed me as a molester, to walk freely for 14 years? So, nothing was wrong until I decided to remarry? If I tell you that my ex-wife sent me a message recently asking me why I decided to remarry.
Imagine a woman we divorced 14 years ago, with whom we have never spoken, because it was a bitter split, asking me why I decided to remarry.
She even got my wife’s phone number and was threatening her that they would kill her.
So, the whole issue started because I decided to remarry. If I was any of those things they allege I am, they would have come out to say so for 14 years. Imagine telling my son that now that I have remarried, his inheritance will be threatened.
How do you tell a 17-year-old boy that? This is the dimension and angle people don’t understand. I have the divorce proceedings. There is no way any court will put four children under your custody when you are a molester.
She wanted to take custody of the children, but I told the court that she didn’t have what it takes to raise them.
How old were these children then – nine, six, four, and two years respectively. No court would give me all those children if I were a molester. Recall that 14 years ago, she granted an interview to a newspaper, and there was no place where she mentioned that I molested the children.
After that, I was given the custody of the children, and she was given access, so that she could come and see them, but under strict supervision.
One day, she came to my house after we had divorced, and she said she was not going to leave. I had to call my lawyer, Barrister Ubani, a Senior Advocate of Nigeria, who reported the matter to a Police Station close to my house. That was how they came and moved her out.
She tore her clothes, went to a newspaper, and granted another interview. There is no way I would be such a person, and the court would grant me the children. How do you think I will feel when a DNA test I conducted, which I decided to keep to myself for years, shows that two among the four children are not your own? That is the wound I have borne for many years that I kept within myself, because I wanted to protect those children. So, I am not happy that I am saying all of these. When all these things started, they went to VeryDarkMan (VDM), the one whose face was blurred, and made her say some scripted and fabricated fallacies against me.
When I was with my previous wife, she would tell me, “I will pull you down, I will destroy your ministry.” So she thought she had found a platform to unleash that threat. It was well-scripted, and I am speaking today because I have evidence.
If you watch, all these while I decided not to respond, not because I don’t know how to talk, or because we are powerless. But silence says so many things. Later, the one who is supposed to be the first daughter called from Canada via WhatsApp, and I recorded our conversation.
She kept asking if the conversation was being recorded because they knew they had done something bad to me. I asked her, “Chinyere, you grew up here, knew me as your father, have I ever done any of those things you were said to have accused me of doing?” She said “no.” I asked her again: “What is that thing you said I normally do to you before I climb the altar?” She said, “Nothing like that happened.” I asked her about what her sister went to VDM to say, and she said she doesn’t have any knowledge of such a thing, and I asked her to add her sister, Amarachi, to the WhatsApp call and she added her. I then asked Amarachi why she lied against me, and she said we should forget it, that it has passed. I said, “Really, to misrepresent me, damage my reputation, and make me look like who I am not, and you are saying it has passed.” I now knew it was a script and they told them to act. I asked her if I had ever done any of those things they accused me of doing, and she said no.
I now wanted to know why she went to that extent, and she said she was fighting for her sibling. So, Amarachi said Precious told her that she entered my room when she was 15 years old and that I touched her and she started shaking, and I left her alone thereafter. I now said if that is in my character, I would have done that to every one of you. Secondly, a molester or a rapist would not say because your body is shaking, he will not go ahead to molest you and if it is in my character, I would have done the same to all of them, and many more people would have come out to say I did the same to them.
Later, the same VDM sent me a messa
