SEX APPROACHES LINES
Approaches lines.
Some of us have made mistakes in the past and we are trying hard to rebuild and reshape our life. If you still have your pride intact, then I say, congratulations. You are fortunate. Your beauty is in inside and not the amount of make up you rub. Try and understand men logic of taking away your pride( virginity) and leaving you to start a life of waiting for the right man.
Now read carefully and think about it.......
1. True love approach: Be careful ladies,if any man or ur boyfriend says,'if u pyelove me you will let me sleep with you', pls, tell him that if he loves you he will not ask you. He's trying to tell u to allow him use you.If a man loves you,he will protect you. True love will not ask for sex before marriage.
2.Flirtry approach: Oh my God, are you an angel,you look so beautiful.I have never set my eye on a beautiful woman like u in my life.the man wants something else.When a man saw you for the first time and said,i love you,can i touch your angelic body,oh my God.he's trying to make you feel good.Tell him that sooner or later,you will see girls more prettier than i do. So go after them.
3. Sympathy approach: "No one show me love,i have been hurt before, i am lonely,there is no big deal if u could come to my house and cook for me'You, out of sympathy,you try to make him happy by cooking for him,dating him and you are on his bed.And men can cry.He's trying to appeal to your instinct,so that you can sleep with him out of sympathy.
4.Helper approach: " I know you've lost your parents,i will be your father,not only your father,ur uncle,u needed 20k,dont worry i will give you 100k.I will send you abroad,to the best school.Just be nice too,u got what it takes to make me happy.you will sleep with me."And ladies who have inferiority complex will jump to the offer and before long,they will realise they are aborting their 6th child.
5.Big short approach: "Girls are begging me to date them,i dont toast ladies,they toast me instead.you are lucky cos i have interest in you.Just behave well and make me happy by doing it right on bed".Guys like this,they are tall,handsome,charming,rich,popular guys.who will want you to feel so lucky to date them.They will tell you 'if you dont want to loose me just perform'. Do you know what? to tell them or better still tell him to go and look for his type,size,who will count herself lucky to be used and dump.He will surely leave you cos,u didnt fall into his trap.
6.The logical approach: This is the partner that will want to have sex immediately after the introduction exercise before the wedding proper.'Afterall,your parents know me now and is less than 3months now for us to get married,lets do this thing'The response to this kind of man is'i appreciate you,but in case you want to change your mind,pls do it now'. Hey, ladies,there are things we dont know about men,they can cancel their wedding, a day before the wedding day or that same day.Cos,if you allow him to have you before marriage,u might get pregnant and he might say,he was forced to marry you because of the baby.Men do talk.He might, one day wake up and start telling you that he didn't want to marry you but you forced him to accept the pregnancy and he want to prove responsible.
7.Abnormal approach: Way back in school,some of my female classmates will tell me that, it is a curse to remain virgin at 21.And they will make you to have boyfriend and to the extent of begging your boyfriend to disflower you.At times, your partner will say,what is wrong with you?you are too frigid,you are female,you must be flexible.I am telling you that there is nothing wrong with you if you're still a virgin at 30.When a man start making you to feel that you are not ok,he only want to have a taste of you.Guys at time use to boast if disflowering numbers if ladies.Just move away from such men.
8.Intellectual approach: This is seen among Xtian/muslim brothers, anytime you are together,they dont have any other topic or question than Sex.what do you think about Oral sex, masturbation,sex before marriage etc? They want to put you in the mood,so that you wont resist them when they touch you.A friend of mine was dating a Pastor sometimes ago and she used to confide in me,she said,anytime i am with him,all what he talks about is sex,kissing,self control etc.She got carried away and she ended up sleeping with him,later the pastor said, she's not the will of God for him.Holiness is not by title,pastor,bishop,evangelist, Alfa,Alhaji etc but holiness is ur act,heart,action.lets take note.
9.Threat approach: 'If you dont sleep with me,i wont continue with this relationship,if we dont have sex i cant love you,or our love cant grow.' These are threats from partners who want to use you.Then, run away from them.
10.Promise approach: "Pls, let have sex,i will buy you a whole of Aso rock. Is it that New model Range Rover,i will order for it.just lets have sex".Some will say,you cant get pregnant,i know how to do it, even if you get pregnant,i will marry you.These promises are just for that moment. satisfied,then ask him of all the promises,he would tell you,is it possible to buy you Aso rock or that Range Rover with my Salary,minimum wage?,If you are pregnant,dont you know what your mate are doing when they get unwanted pregnancy.This is the man that was making endless promises some hours ago.So my dear Girlfriend,when you sense all these in your guy,just know that you are about to be use and dump.
11.Guilt approach: when you visit your man and you throw yourself at him,kissing his cheek,hugging him and he later held you tight and said"Do you know that i am in the mood?''He might even make you to feel guilty for setting him on fire, and telling you to calm him down by sleeping with him.'I am tense up.' why did you started what you cannot finish. See what you've cause.My friend,do you know what to do in this situation? You need to apply wisdom.Try to tell him to go to the bathroom and shower that you will be waiting for him, when you discovered that he's in the bathroom,then remove your two shoes and run as if Ghost is pursuing you out of the house and dont try to come back. Because if care is not taking, he might rape you and you will feel guilty of making him to commit sin with you.Kissing, hugging is sensitive,so be careful not to hurt each-other.
This is just for the wise. If ladies can apply wisdom in their dealings with men,they will be in control. Well, some foolish men will say, 'there are many fishes in the ocean' but out of those fishes we have a golden fish.it is rare to come by.
Making mistake doesn't mean we cant be a good woman, i will always tell people,you can hurt me today but you cant hurt me tomorrow. you can cheat me Once but i wont allow u to cheat me twice.
The word of GOD says, no sinner would go unpunished. A LADY who seduced men for sex has her own part iN HELL. A man who saw a lady at the age of 29,35yrs and you know she's desperate but u used her instead,bcos she didn't understand the word of God.u later dump her.the judgement of God is on u.she will be judged and u will be judge accordingly. LETS HELP ONE ANOTHER TO LIVE A GOOD LIFE