Rules changed: We are in the world of Babymama's..My sister, lets go back to the time of old, its true and Just. Learn to be different. If you want to excel in life, don't take byways,shortcut. Don't compromise your faith because your mates are getting married. Getting pregnant before marriage is not Christian like! Better still single than compromise. Marriage cannot complete you. Marriage cannot bring you happiness.
I understand what you are going through emotionally when your friends flashes their wedding rings......
if you are an incomplete single lady...you will meet an incomplete man and you will have an incomplete marriage. We live in an incomplete world. We live in a world of marriage is everything. Learn to enjoy where you are as a single lady in order to prepare you for where you are going. Stop envy people and feeling sad that you are not married. Cos, your friend or your younger sister/cousin is married with 3 kids,so you go to bed feeling sad,you don't even enjoy what God has given to you. You must make up your mind you will arise. Lets people see you as a happy lady. Be lively,be cheerful and dont allow men to use you.......at times its funny when some young men say,a particular lady is desperate, they judged her because of her age....(number).....I have seen a 47yr old woman who got married based on having a companion,ruling out having children out of it but GOD surprised her by reducing her age 10yrs...she got pregnant and
In marriage, it is not finding the right person but being the right person because water must always find its level. Prepare yourself well as a single person to attract your like(man).
Dearie, ask single parents, ask those babymama's.....if they are sincere with you, they MISSED something. Plan well....dont look for handsome men to marry cos, you will end up marrying Second hand, third hand husband and you might even end up being his babymama.....Babymamarism (lol) is like tradition is America, now its finding its way here.
I got inspired after listening Pastor Funke Felix Adejumo of Agape Christian Church...
Yours Single Pye
